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5 Months!

I would say that time has been flying, but after the first two weeks of this month...it didn't.
At 4.5 months, we were cruising along and then all signs of teething hit and our world came to a grumpy stop. Little did we know that it was combination teething/virus. Luckily, it has seemed to pass and we are back on track with our BIG GOAL of trying to get him to sleep through the night! That goal, however, seems as unbelievable as flying a unicorn to the pot of gold, at the end of the rainbow.

Abram hit the 5 month mark last Monday, and is getting more and more personality.

 Health: Our poor baby had his first visit to the ER, with a 104 degree fever, caused by a stomach virus and teething combined. Two weeks later, he was finally feeling better!

 He tries to grab EVERYTHING!

We're getting there... 
       Abram's naps have started to get longer this month. He also started to go 6 hours without eating, at night. He would still wake up after 4 to be patted, but after teething and a virus he wakes up after 4 hours starving! 

       He is still only on Enfamil AR, prune juice, and prevacid. We are waiting until closer to 6 months to start solids. He now drinks 6-7 oz, every 3 hours...hence the weight gain!

        We love putting him int the jumperoo when we need to get stuff done. I try and read to him often, but he hates it. We still love his bumbo, Bob stroller, Chicco lightway stroller, softy blanket, sophie the giraffe, white noise machine, bouncer, infant tub, activity gym, baby bjorn, and other toys

Baby wearing and painting a mural... 


He LOVES talking, music, standing, bath time, Bijou, looking around, his jumperoo, his feet, putting anything in his mouth, laying on his belly, Sophie, looking at himself in the mirror

Abram hates his carseat, shopping, being hot, laying on his back unless he can look at his planes, wearing his cool sunglasses. 

"Stuck in the carseat while shopping...kill me now..."
Milestones: Longer naps, blowing bubbles, two new teeth {bottom}, jumping a ton in the jumperoo, squealing, and {tear} his eyes are changing from blue to a hazel/gray/greenish color. He also surprised the heck out of me when he grabbed my watermelon out of my hand and sucked on it. He then made a sour face, looked at me, and started to scrape it with his teeth. This boy is almost ready for real food!
 Abram celebrated his first Easter at the same time he got his first teeth.

He traveled to Dallas, met some cousins, is now in the stroller without the infant seat, had his first ER visit, his first pool day, and his first taste of watermelon.

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It's a Traveler's Life for Me...

       Monday night, as we were brushing our teeth, Matt moaned and made the comment about how he feels like we are living like travelers...always on the go. For him to say this must mean we need to slow down. I am usually the one who wants to take it easy, while he always wants to do stuff...or he will get bored and fall asleep (unlike our son). Luckily, we will be home for at least a couple weekends.

       So what have we been up to!? Well, for Easter we traveled to Matt's parents...the day after the ER visit...with Abram still sick and REALLY not sleeping. We gave him and Bijou their baskets before we left. 

We got Bijou some Fugly Friends (They are so cute!) and some treats in her eggs. 

 Abram got a train toy, teething stuff, solid food gear, hats for summer, a football, and I handed down my first Bible (which was a Christmas present from my mom)

 He was actually excited about his Easter basket!

       Matt's dad was throwing a Persian New Year Party on Easter, so we celebrated Easter at church that morning and then changed into our New Year picnic party gear. Unfortunately, Abram felt bad and it rained so we were only at the picnic a couple hours. The next day he was feeling good enough to take a stroll on the farm This is the farm Matt grew up on, and the farmhouse his grandad was born in...lots of history here!

Our first Easter together 

Three generations 

       We got back home the following Monday evening and left on Friday morning to head to Dallas, to meet my family for the Color Run....it was a blast!

Too cool to run...or maybe too scared!

      Abram had not slept all week, so I was exhausted! Matt took all the night shifts that weekend. We met my mom's side of the family to do the run we had been planning since Thanksgiving. A fairly new addition to our plan was my uncle's name on our arms, along with Psalm 118:17. He is currently fighting cancer, so our run was for him. Just in case you don't know the verse, Psalm 118:17, "I shall not die, but live, and declare the works of the Lord." We are praying for God to heal Troy, and I would very much appreciate your prayers for the same. :)

       Anyway, all of the younger ones were babysat by my grandparents while we ran. In a couple of years I am sure they will have a blast together. Nothing is more important than your health and family! Oh and by the way, Abram is now sleeping around 5-6 hours this week. Praise God!

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Our easter weekend...to be continued

       It turns out that what I though was a bad case of teething, was. Abram is now sporting 2 pearly whites, front and center, on the bottom row. But while I was thinking he was whiny because he could not handle the teething pain; another issue was hiding in the teething symptoms.

       Our easter weekend began with days of crankiness and problems hitting their peak on Friday night, with a 104 degree fever. Don't babies always get sick on Friday nights? That temperature was a little too high for our liking so he got a dose of Tylenol, a cool rag on his head, and it was off to the ER.

       They decided to run a ton of tests to rule out infections. For the record, the Memorial Hermann hospital near our house has an amazing ER that always gives us a pleasant experience considering the circumstances. After getting a catheter, nose swabbed, blood drawn, x-ray, and an IV everything came back clear and they ruled it as a virus...treated with tylenol.

       Although the fever was gone by the next morning, it was a weekend of ups and downs. Our pediatrician saw him yesterday and diagnosed him with the stomach flu virus which explains everything! I am hoping we are on the tail end of this and he will feel better soon. The happier part of our weekend coming next...

What a difference a night makes...

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Teething, you suck!

Just in case you don't follow me on instagram; allow me to inform you...
Teething is a MOTHER!
the drooling,
the mouthing,
the loss of appetite,
the fussiness,
the change in sleep,
the fever,
the swollen gums,
the diarrhea {never thought I would complain about too much poo},
and the spit up...oh the spit up!
"Something just get in my mouth!"

Seriously, they are all symptoms of teething from what I have read, and over the past couple of weeks my child has had them ALL! 

I have sworn Abram was starting to teeth since he became a drool production machine 1.5 months ago, but many moms told me is was way to early. Still to this day most will swear that 4.5 months is too early for teeth. 

Well if there is one thing I have learned from this experience, it is to trust your gut! 

How many times have I already learned that as Abram's mom? I lost count.

So sorry doubting moms; I found two lines where teeth are starting to poke through tonight! {bottom, front} I still love ya'll...and thanks so much to the moms who clued me in that it was not too early. They encouraged me to break out the teething toys I had in Abram's Easter basket. Thank heavens I did; they saved me tonight! 

Now, if only I could have saved my 3 different shirts from the enormous amount of spit up he has had today! My guess is that he has so much drool it is making him spit up more.

Here's hoping those babies pop through soon so my boy can get some relief and stop chewing on his aunt's head like it is the best dog toy the world has ever seen! I also have to make ANOTHER trip out to replace his easter basket goodies...sigh

Most of all...I am going to miss his sweet little gummy smile. Tear......my boy is growing up too fast!

This might be the last gummy smile we get pictured :(

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Liebster Award

Thanks to my new blog "friend", Angie at keithandangiepope for nominating me for this awesome award!  I love your blog, so I was honored to be given this by you! This is so fun....


The Rules:
1.  Each blogger should post 11 random facts about themselves.
2.  Answer the questions the tagger has set for you, and then create 11 new questions for the bloggers your pass the award to next.
3.  Choose new bloggers (with less than 200 followers) to pass the award to and link them in your post.
4.  Go back to their page and tell than about the award.
5.  No tag backs. 

11 Random Facts about myself;

1.  I am slightly OCD…First of all I HAVE to have my burt bee’s on and a glass of water by the bed or I CANNOT go to sleep. Oh how I wish it just ended there…I have a couple design degrees, right? So, I cannot stand when I picture is out of line or if something is angled when others are not {a group of stools}…I also HAVE to have one of each color m&m/skittle/bite sized candy on each side of my mouth to even it out when chewing. I will go crazy if not and will bite that one color left in half and then proceed to split it on each side.
2.  I guess this continues with the fact above, but if you are talking to me and I am staring at you funny like I am concentrating, or looking around the room…it is because I am comparing a color/print you have on to others in the room while I try to decide which combination I like best…but I swear I am still listening! ;) I have actually been called out by my close family and friends while doing it.
3.  I LOVE to run! I could do it every day if I had time and the right weather. I started running, though, when the doctor told me I had to lower my cholesterol in high school. I wasn’t over-weight, just on Accutane (twice) for my horrible skin…it worked…the running, not the Accutane.
4.  I am still scared of the dark and do not watch scary movies. I think the last one I saw was The Ring or something at the beginning of college. When I started living alone, I just couldn’t take my overly active imagination all hyped up on movies. I get my thrills from watching Bones. Ha!
5.  I have Flintstone feet. Yes, I have short, fat toes and wide, flat feet. Attractive, I know. My husband’s feet are the complete opposite and he teases me all the time…but I just say they have character. He always freaks when he thinks Abram’s toes look a little short. Thanks hunny!
6.  My first job was at a Cajun restaurant where old, Cajuns frequented to dance all night long to the live Cajun band. It was awesome and hilarious…and I cannot Cajun dance to save my life because I am not Cajun…sometimes made for an awkward evening.
7.  I have a pretty extensive rock collection from way back when I wanted to be a geologist.
8.  When I was young, I didn't want to hurt any of my stuffed animal’s feelings so I had to be fair and if I slept with one, I had to let them all sleep with me. Yes, I was surrounded and yes that explains why my dog sleeps in bed with us.
9.  I love working in my flower beds. Being outside, digging in the dirt with no other thoughts is so relaxing. I hate wearing gloves though...I just dig my hands into the dirt without a care in the world. When I arrive at the Garden Center I get a rush of excitement that cannot be topped by shopping for clothes or shoes. I wish I could live in a tree house surrounded by flowers.
10.  I have been drawing floor plans since I was in second grade. I never understood how someone couldn't tell what they meant.
11.  In elementary school I wrote a series of books based on the main character, Karen. She would go on all sorts adventures and no I don’t know why I named her Karen.
11 questions from Angie:
1. What's your favorite holiday and why?
Thanksgiving for sure. My extended family only gets together for one holiday…this one. I   HATE having to miss it! The pumpkin pie and gravy just tops off all the goodness.
2. What would you do with 10 million dollars?
Geez…should I be all sweet and giving, or selfish? Well first I would give some of the money to a bully breed rescue to help out all the homeless pups. That would take care of the giving part…then I would get a big car to be able to take our dog with us comfortably…and build my dream house. Take a few vacations, start my children’s décor line I’ve been dreaming about. Invest…let’s face it we are a Dave Ramsey house. I would NEVER clean a bathroom again!

3. If you could only shop at one store for baby clothes, what store would it be?
Man, this is tough. I love Gap, but h&m and Old Navy are more on my budget level.

4. If you could visit one city in the world just for a day, which one would you visit?
Cinque Terre, Italy. I have been there before and loved it. I would also love to go somewhere I haven't been, but going back here WITH the hubby would be amaze!
5. What's your dream job?
To own my own business. Now, if I could just figure out what it would be. Currently, I would LOVE to design nursery/children’s furniture and décor. 
6.  If your husband/significant other could nominate you for a 'senior superlative'-- you know, those things you voted for in High School, i.e. 'Best Dressed', 'Best Eyes', 'Most Likely to Succeed' etc, what do you think they'd pick?
Most stressed ha! No, he actually did call me something, "Nice Nikki".
7. Most addicting/Favorite Phone app?
When I get stressed I play Sudoku. I also LOVE the pic apps…I have like 50.
8. Which food/drink do you always have in the house?
Cranberry Pomegranate juice.
9. What do you love most about parenting?
I love that {most of the time} when Abram sees me walk into the room, he gets happy. I love that I know how to get him to sleep. I love his gummy smile and seeing him learn something new every day. 
10. You are stranded on a deserted island with 5 people. Which 5 would you want there and why?
This one could get me into trouble. My closest fam & friends read this! I'll just say, you know who you are! ;)
11. What's your favorite thing about blogging? 
I started blogging to get things off my mind and document my life for all of my friends and family  in other states to read. I love to go back and see what I was thinking or what was going on at  one point and seeing how it turned out. I also love all of the people I have come in contact with from blogging.
My questions for the next folks:
1. What would you consider to be your biggest achievement in life so far?
2. What is your favorite childhood memory?
3. What is your favorite thing to do with your child/family?
4. What would you consider your decorating style?
5. What is your go to beauty product? 
6. What were you doing right before you wrote this post?

7. What would you choose to do if you had a day off just to relax?
8. If calories didn't matter, what would you choose to eat?
9. Do you dance when you go to weddings?
10. What motivates you when you are feeling lazy?
11. What's your favorite flower?
And the bloggers I nominate are:
Marianne and Alex at Love Me Bright
Brooke at My Little Happies
Jenny at That girl with sparkly heels
Brooke at days-to-never-forgete Below

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Free Boy Printable!

   This is an easy DIY but not everyone has a good graphic program, so I made a few versions of the boy saying I have up in Abram's nursery. It is an 8"x10" pdf format...feel free to contact me for other sizes! Simply click on the link above for the downloadable image...

       I decided not to frame mine, and instead bought an 8 x 10 canvas and printed the image 3 times onto card stock. One print is for the front, one is used to cut the long sides from, and the other is to cut the short sides from. I just measured the thickness of the canvas and cut the edges off of the print to create a matching distressed looking side. I then used modge podge on the back to apply it all to the canvas. If you do want to apply the modge podge to the front, don't print from an inkjet or the ink will smear.

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4 months

 Ahhhh...who is this chunky monkey!? 

       This picture reminds me of a who in grinch, or an elf baby, or maybe even me as a baby...too bad I don't have a good pic to compare. Soon, I promise.
A giant with a small head... 
       His 4 month appointment was 10 days before he hit 4 months, but he was 14 lbs 11 oz. and 26.5" tall. His head size was in the 15% and his height was the 100%. Do what? He also got a fever for a few days after the appointment, along with a stuffy nose, but at least we got use of his humidifier.

It is official, 4 month old's are the worst models...

"Sorry mom, I am too interested in my feet to look at you!"
And...
"Oh crap, down I go!"
Rockin' and Rollin'...
       At 14 weeks, we began finding him on his tummy {still swaddled} in his crib....screaming most of the time, so we had to start leaving one arm out in order to eventually stop swaddling for his safety.  After a week, he could sleep without a swaddle which was great because by that time he was rolling to his tummy on purpose...we officially have a tummy sleeper people! Ya, he gets it from me...
I'll take my milk straight up with a shot of prune juice please...
       Right before Abram turned 14 weeks, he was put on Enfamil AR {for reflux}, along with his prevacid and prune juice....about a week later his spit up was MUCH LESS! He also went from drinking an average of 3 oz per bottle, to 5 oz in a week! Amazing! By 4 months, he was averaging 6 oz. for 6 feedings a day.
The 4 month old, bad model winning pic...this:
Not sure what to think...he posed like this for several pics and I didn't even realize until I opened them on the computer. Kid's got sass...
Baby Gear Love: Jumperoo, books, bumbo, bob stroller, softy blanket, sophie the giraffe, white noise machine, bouncer
I swear the day I doubted Sophie on Instagram, he started to like her...I guess I shouldn't doubt the "status teether"
 His valentine's books he got from us

Likes:  He LOVES to have conversations and mumble, loves music and when I sing, bath time, the tv, his feet, chewing on his hands, Bijou, looking around, standing with help, rolling, and kisses. His interest in toys is still on and off...if it looks like a good chew toy he will probably take it.

 "Come here pretty lady, I want to give you a smooch!"...they have a "thing" apparently.

 Dislikes: He HATES laying down in the carseat still. He gets so worked up that he is literally drenched in sweat by the end of the car ride.  He hates being hot and laying on his back now. He has realized the amazingness of laying on his belly and burying his face in the sheets...freaks me out!

Milestones:
It's officialy, the newborn phase is not our cup of tea. This is so much better! He tries to grab everything and put it into his mouth. He now enjoys walks outside WITHOUT the infant seat. He just chills and takes it all in. This boy has got quite the personality, and is a known lady's man! He stands more and rolls ALL.THE.TIME! He is no longer swaddles and is being weaned off of pacifiers as we speak {because of laziness, not his need for them}.

      Abram started off his Cajun tradition of crawfish boils, just as an observer for the moment. He also attended the Houston rodeo and had his first sleep over. This little guy is also on the verge of crawling and won the doctor over with his Hercules strength ;). Oh and to my surprise and sick humor, he can also scare very easily {like his momma} whenever I make a strange sound. I'm trying to attach the video, but that might make me look like a bully...all in good fun! This month passed by the fastest of all...times needs to slow down...except for the sleep part.

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Happy St. Patty's day!

Hope everyone had a good weekend celebrating! Our weekend consisted of poison ivy and several home remedies that had my husband smelling like a walking Easter egg, as he blow dried his arms.

No, you did not read that wrong.

We also got to clean, install sink faucets, and most exciting of all...a trip to lowes to buy trees! Watch out!

Abram enjoyed the festivities and most of all, chewing on his hands.

I guess everyone needs a catch up weekend, and we have the next 3 booked up with fun so I can't complain. Here's the smile that made this holiday the most special of all St. Patrick's days I've celebrated ...his belly laughs are the greatest!

Oh and a 4 month post is in the works!

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Mommy & Me Monday...and some favorites

       Abram and I played catch up from the last few weeks today. With the time change and traveling, he is a little off schedule...blah! Not that he is a great sleeper anyway, but I HATE when he takes 20 minute naps!

Here are some of the adventures we've been on recently, in pics:

3rd crawfish boil of the month 
Junior League Ball
Doodle's visit

Rodeo with my family 

 Mommy and baby recovery Monday

He loves his sister

And since I get very little beauty sleep, some of my favorite things for looking and feeling refreshed  ;).

When I have time to take a bath, this stuff smells so nice and relaxes me so that I can sleep well {even for 2 hours}. It also makes my skin feel very soft.
I just recently discovered this to put on before bed. It helps reduce the dark circles and puffiness from lack of sleep. It also helps with lines around the eyes so I guess it can work for several issues. The best part is that a little goes a long way so it will last a while.
I have been using this for years! I am addicted to chapstick so I HAVE to put it on every night and throughout the day. The pomegranate oil helps my lips feel extra moisturized. Matt knows that my form of torture would be no chapstick so we have this stashed multiple places thoughout the house and cars.
Another recent discovery. I have used a lot of exfoliators and I have also had troubled skin since my teens. This product makes me skin appear smoother than ever before {I have received compliments on my skin for the first time in my life} and smells like fresh lemons. The days that I use this my skin feels so silky soft that I just cannot stop touching it...people that see me probably think I have some kind of ocd touching issue.
I discovered this through another blog recently. I haven't used a powder blush in years because I hate the powdery look, but a lot of the gels don't seem to show up. I put 3 strokes of this on each cheek and blend and I look sun kissed. I love the glow it gives me...I haven't seen the sun in 4 months ;).
6) Big Sexy Hair Dry Shampoo

I am a big fan of dry shampoo since the little man doesn't allow me to wash my hair all the time. I have also been training my hair to not need to be washed as frequently with this. It gives it body and soaks up the oil...and my hair is much healthier as a result.

7)  Makeup Forever Uplight Gel {#11}

Another discovery through a blog. I put this just above my cheek bones, on my eyelids, and under my eyes...and wherever I feel needs it. It just gives you a dewy glow...like you have had a full nights rest.

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Rodeo Season Y'all!

       I promise we are still alive! The past two weeks have felt like the holiday season; complete with all 3 of us getting sick {did you know moms don't get sick days?}, a ball, crawfish boils, birthdays, and the rodeo. We have gotten to go to the Houston Rodeo twice this year! Matt and I saw Toby Keith and the whole fam saw Dierks Bentley. What other 4 month old has cowboy style while at one of the biggest rodeos, watching an amazing singer?

I have a lot to catch up on...guess who turns 4 months tomorrow!? 

Holy moly! 

       I also have a lot of projects in the works and being typed up so check back soon. For now, I will leave you with this cuteness...I about exploded with cute, cowbaby overload!

       Yes, those are sock boots, a baby belt buckle, and "my hero" collared shirt onesie. My word, how can you resist?!

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D.I.Y. Antiqued Dresser

     
       I needed a long dresser to double as a changing table for the nursery so I started my hunt on craigslist for an old one, with the intention of painting it a color to bring it back to life. I found several candidates, but the price wasn't worth the work I would put in. Then I found a dresser & nightstand set that was already painted grey and was a great price. Score for the tired, pregnant woman with swollen feet, who did not feel like painting anymore!

Don't you love the random objects placed on the dresser!?

       The problem was I had already painted his walls a grey-blue so the dresser blended in too much. Luckily, I had some extra black glaze left over from our kitchen cabinet makeover {tutorial coming soon}. It only took a couple hours and made it look a little darker and rustic.... just perfect for the little boy's room!

       P.S. If I had painted it, I would have followed the same steps in this tutorial to ensure it would be durable. If you would want to paint and antique, just don't put on the polyurethane sealant until AFTER you antique. Oh and the handles are spray painted which is simple as long as you do several, thin coats. If you hold the can too close and get the paint clumpy, you will need to strip the handles and start over.

       Oh and there are several ways to create different antiqued looks, this is just one way that I have found to be pretty easy.

Supplies:
- furniture of your choice
- Paint colors of your choice to mix with the glaze
- Clear Glaze

- Paint brush 
- Paint rag {damp and dry} to wipe
- Clear Polyurethane 
- Gloves
- Mask to protect from fumes
- Plastic to protect surrounding areas


Step 1:
        I bought one container of clear glaze and mixed the amount directed with a sample size of the Valspar color I chose. The color I used was almost black because I wanted the glazed color to darken the dresser considerably.  
TIP: The more glaze you mix with the paint, the thinner it will be when applied...the less glaze you use with the paint, the thicker it will go on and less it will wipe off.

Step 2:         Apply the glaze mixture evenly to one face at a time with the paint brush. Make sure to wipe any mistakes off with a damp cloth right away. 

Step 3:
       After a couple minutes begin wiping the glazed area with a dry cloth until you get the look you want. You can add multiple layers to darken the glaze if needed.

TIP: Experiment with a small section (maybe hidden) to see what affect you want...keep a damp cloth with you to wipe off immediately if you don't like it. The longer you wait to wipe the glaze, the more the glaze stays on.

Step 4:
       To make sure everything stays in place, I did a final coat of Polyurethane clear coat, in Satin finish...always put a clear coat on furniture and cabinets. 

TIP: Make sure the clear coat you choose does not yellow over time, especially if you are using white/light paint.

  • Glaze from Lowes mixed with a sample of customized black valspar paint
  • Polyurethane water-based clear coat in Satin (because I wanted to reduce the shine of my paint)

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3 Months

Ummm, this cannot be real...is my baby really 3 months old!?
Just one of the many reasons why Abram turning 3 months old is bitter sweet...he is no longer a newborn. 

So wait, I can't use the excuse of having a newborn for my messy house anymore? Crap.

       I have been taking all of him in lately as the newborn deadline quickly approached. Sometimes I just stare and smell him for like five minutes...yes I said smell...you may think I am strange, but I swear if I could bottle his scent I would wear it!

Health: After our visits with the doctors last month, we finally solved his constipation issues. All seemed good. Then 11 weeks hit and his 4 hour sleep stretches went down to 2-3 again, and he was waking up screaming about an hour after eating to be sat up. His naps were getting better at first, and they too completely stopped. His eating habits decreased from 3-5 oz a feeding, to 2-3. He was also very uneasy...not as much as he was when he was constipated, but I knew something was up. 
The day before he turned 3 months he was diagnosed with acid reflux and put on Prevacid and rice cereal to thicken his formula. {ps they aggravated his previous issue and we will be starting something new this week...poor guy}.
Sleep: Right after Abram turned 2 months our pediatrician recommended we try and get him to sleep 6 hour stretches at night by giving him a pacifier until it was time to feed him. Supposedly after a week he would get it. I tried for 5 hours and it failed. 
Miserably. 
So after a week of not sleeping as much I gave in and decided he would sleep longer than 4 hours when he was ready. That is about when he started sleeping 3 hours. Awesome. Luckily, it only lasted a few days {while I continued to apologize for pushing him}and he was back to 4 hours...I'll take it!
      
 Well mid-month that decreased back to 2-3 and he began waking twice. After he started being treated for reflux he has slept 6-7 hours without waking! Holy moly...please let this be our answer! Oh and he now sleeps in his crib at night with no affect on his sleep. We were happy about this one!

Diet: Enfamil Gentlease with about 2 tsp prune juice. I would say he still averaged about 4 oz this month. We also started adding in some rice cereal, but will not be continuing that. My guilt about not being able to breastfeed still continues to loom with all of the issues. I know there was nothing I could do, but I keep wondering if all of this would have happened if I could be feeding him myself.

newborn outfit vs. 6 month

Baby Gear Love: Boppy, newborn/infant tub, miracle blanket, white noise machine, activity gym, swing, pandora disney and baby einstein stations, bumpo, Dr. Seuss texture book, jumperoo {at the end of the month}.

Crying: Still just when he is hungry, tired, or in pain. His screams when he is in pain break my heart!

Likes: When he is not any of the three mentioned above, he is the HAPPIEST baby! He is always smiling and talking. He LOVES to have conversations, loves music and when I sing, bath time, he tries to watch tv now so we have to be careful, his swing and light up mobile, Bijou, looking around, standing with help, kisses. He just started having interest in toys this past week {some of them} and has lost interest in the fan. 

Dislikes: He started to HATE laying down on our lap, in the carseat, or stroller. Mainly because he wants to see the WORLD! He will sit or try to stand and just look around at EVERYTHING with wide eyes and a look of fascination. He also dislikes eating these days, being cold, quiet, having to use the bathroom, and laying on his tummy.
Milestones: He has been developing so much this month! It has been my favorite so far! He is much more talkative! We have conversations...he laughs and sighs. He has started to mimic me when I stick out my tongue or say, "oooOOOooo". He also noticed Bijou this month so he just stares and smiles at her...BFF! It has been hard to have a young pet and newborn at the same time, but we have stuck through it and worked with Bijou when she has her "moments"...like an older sibling. The relationship I already see developing makes all the work so worth it. They will be great, sometimes annoying, friends I am sure.

       He is also all smiles...it is the easiest thing to get him to do. We also have him laughing. Most of the time it is one solid noise, but this past week he has started to do the real baby laugh a few times.  He still stands a lot and can role from his back to his tummy with a little help, but doesn't like it. He started to notice his hands around 2.5 months, and has begun to control them to grab/swat at stuff like toys and my face. He also sucks on them now. He follows objects and when he hears our voices or the tv he will extend as far as he can to see..not so happy about the tv.

      I set up the activity gym at around 2 months, so we go to his room for tummy time and then I put him in his bumbo for a few minutes. We love listening to Baby Einstein, Rockabye Baby Renditions, Disney Movie Songs, and Jack Johnson on my pandora app while we play. He also hangs out in his crib sometimes and LOVES the planes daddy hung above it. He just laughs and talks to himself while looking at them. At the end of the month, we set up the jumperoo we borrowed from a friend. I put a cushion under it so he could reach and he is really starting to get the hang of bouncing.

       Abram had his first real playdate with Sam one night while daddy was out of town...and mommy and Leigh Ann drank martinis. ;) It was a little overwhelming for him at first, but he got used to it.

       He also had his first wedding rehearsal dinner, aquarium visit, carousel ride, babysitter that wasn't family {so thankful for the women in Junior League}, and reveal party {for one of his future BOY best friends}. So far 3 months is my favorite...we are having so much fun with him!

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How to add character to a hanging lamp

       When I was designing the look of Abram's nursery I really wanted a light by the rocking chair to create a reading area. Unfortunately there was no spot for a lamp, so I decided to do a hanging one. 

       First of all, I love that I could create it for pretty cheap since Ikea is for frugal people like me. It also took up no counter space and could not be knocked over and broken by little boys {I may have to raise it later to avoid Tarzan reenactments though}. Best of all, I finally had a use for my Joel Dewberry fabric that I fell in love with and bought before I was even pregnant! 

 

Supplies:
       - Ikea lamp shade or other shade that can be hung
       - Ikea hanging lamp (basically just the white cord with bulb attachment and a plug in)
       - fabric of your choice (the amount depends on the size of the shade)
       - spray adhesive
       - scissors
       - twine or other rope, string, yarn, etc
       - hot glue gun

Shade:

       My mom covered the lamp shade for me to help me save time. I told her to take pics while she worked so I could do a tutorial, but she failed me which is why that crafty little woman doesn't have her own blog. Tisk tisk Deb. Luckily, I found a similar tutorial from another amazing DIY'ers blog who remembers to take pics! Check it out here: Cover a lampshade

Cord:
       Super super easy...I just wanted to cover the white plastic and and electrical numbers with out a girly, bunched fabric. I used twine and simply wrapped it around the cord; hot gluing it on both ends. I did not get the glue on the cord, just the twine itself. I tucked the rest behind the drapes, but it could be wrapped all the way if needed. Using a bright colored string/yarn for a child's room or playroom might be fun!

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Times, they are a changing...

This weekend was a big one for us at the Tag house...

       Abram has been having some sleep regression. Part of us thinks it is caused by the "wonder week" he is going through, but we have also noticed he is becoming increasingly aware of his surroundings and we were afraid we were waking him up. SOOO....

       We moved him to HIS crib in HIS room, Saturday night. I thought I was ready to have my room back to myself, but it was way harder than I thought. I just stared at the monitor and imagined seeing his similar face at my 21 week ultrasound. I am so sappy this week! It's also probably because he is turning 3 months ,on Friday, and will no longer be my newborn baby. I keep thinking of this saying, that I also saw on another mom's post...

       Every day I look forward to a time when I can get more sleep. Sleep shapes our days right now. At the same time, I just try and soak up every bit of Abram at this age because I LOVE it! He is getting such a happy, wonderful personality and I see him learning more every day. I probably have a trillion pictures of him...we have photo shoots at least once a day when I think he is doing something cute or new {almost all the time}.
       To top off the bedroom change, tonight he will be wearing his first 6 month pj's because he can't straighten out his legs in 3 month anymore :(. Today is also the last day he will be in size 1 diapers. You can now see why I feel like he needs to give me time to adjust haha.

       This weekend was all about fun, family time. All the checklists were pushed aside while we went to the Downtown Aquarium for the first time with my best friend {who has a 5 month old and an almost 3 year old}. We also visited Matt's college roommate {who has a 15 month old}, and old boss {who has a baby due this month}. Lots of socializing for Mr. Abram. He loved the aquarium...they had light up fish hanging from the ceiling that were getting him so excited. We also got to take a carousel and train ride. The train had a glass ceiling so the trees above fascinated him. A few tanks extended over our heads so he would just stare at the water from his stroller.

       Oh by the way...we are still struggling with his sleep...the crib is so far no better/no worse than the pack-n-play... Come on baby boy!

Have a great week y'all! 

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My Champion Fighter

Sleep fighter that is...
       That's right, my kid hates sleep. Abram will be 12 weeks on Thursday and has now slept 6 hours once, 5 hours twice, and constantly sleeps 4 hours at night. It is not the night time sleep that was concerning me so much...I figure he will get longer stretches when he is ready.
       His naps are my problem! He started out ONLY sleeping in his bouncer, then it was the pack-n-play {which he still sleeps in at night}. He would take great naps in his pack-n-play around 6 weeks, then it stopped! I tried his crib...didn't work. I always use a swaddle and white noise. He was only going about 20-45 minutes max. which made my days feel like a race against time. Every time he would wake up I would wait to feed him, and then start looking up solutions. 
       Most websites suggested that he was overtired. Well I became an expert at decoded his signs. He digs his head into my shirt {first sign}, rubs his eyes and yawns {next}, his eyes get red and tired looking, and if I let it go too far he cries. I also recorded his nap times with his schedule and realized that at this time he can only stay awake for 1-1.5 hours without crying. I also put him down drowsy, and he would fall asleep within minutes, then wake up around 30 minutes later...AHHH! I was going crazy!
       That is when I discovered this article: http://www.troublesometots.com/how-to-get-baby-to-sleep-better-part-2/ . There are also more details here: http://www.troublesometots.com/newborn-baby-sleep-survival-guide/
   
       The swing has saved our naps! He started sleeping 45 min-2 hours! Now I won't lie some days/weeks are better than others. The past 2 weeks I was getting 1.5-2 hours at a time and this week seems to be about 45 minutes, but I will work with it to get nap time= me time. :)

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Mommy & Me Monday

       Since I have had Abram, I have started taking thousands of pictures of him by himself, some of him with Matt, and well...none of me with him! He is the cutest little thing in the world, but I figured he would like a few pics of us together. I am linking up with some other ladies for Mommy & Me Monday to force myself to step back in front of the camera like I always was during pregnancy.

       It is a good thing this weekend was full of adventure so I had to get out of my pjs and work out clothes. We went back to Louisiana for Matt's best friend's wedding. Abram didn't join us for the actual wedding, but did come to the rehearsal and rehearsal dinner; sporting his Tux onesie he got for Christmas from Uncle Dave. He was a hit!

Suit up!

He looks like he is dancing... 

The night we got home I made Matt take this...one of my favorite things is when he falls asleep on my shoulder

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My second cup of coffee

This morning is a two cups of coffee morning. That is a pretty big deal around here considering that before Abram I couldn't even drink a whole cup of coffee, and definitely not after 10 am or I couldn't sleep that night.

Last night, he gave me a solid 5 hour stretch of sleep for the first time ever. However, since the previous two nights were down to 2-3 hour stretches, leaving me searching google for answers to sleep regression, my body is not accepting his apology.

I've been trying to persuade him to sleep longer by convincing him that if he lets me sleep now, I will let him sleep in when he is 16. He's not buying it.

Well, it is a good thing I love looking at this sweet face and touching his soft cheeks in the middle of the night!

Happy 11 weeks Baby Abey!

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D.I.Y. Painted Laminate Book Shelf

   

       When Matt and I moved in together he brought all of his college furniture. This bookcase was bought at a garage sale and instead of getting rid of it and buying another book shelf, I decided to try and revamp it for the nursery.

Supplies:
- Shelf
- Kilz Oil Based Primer (or Zinsser Oil Based Primer-more odor, or Water-based Primer- needs more drying time and a sanding)
- Paint colors of your choice
- Clear Polyurethane 
- 220 Grit Sand Paper
- Paint brush and/or foam roller
- Mineral Spirits to clean supplies
- Mask to protect from fumes
- Plastic to protect surrounding areas

Step 1:
        First, I filled in any scratches or dents with a putty and sanded them until even with the laminate. Since I am painting it the difference in material will not show. I then cleaned the shelf with a damp cloth. I also took out any shelves that could be removed and worked on those separately.

Step 2:
        Next, I used a small foam roller to roll on the Kilz Oil Based Primer to really create a binding agent for the paint to stick to. I used a cheap brush just to get the paint in the cracks. Zinsser Oil Based Primer works well too, but has a strong odor...so since there is a pregnant woman in the house, we decided on the odorless Kilz {still has a small odor so use in a well-ventilated area}. Check the back of can for length of time to wait in between coats.

       If you use water-based you MUST sand before (not the case with the oil-based), and wait at least 7 hours for the primer to cure. I believe the cure time for the oil-based is only 2 hours, but I usually wait a little longer to be sure. After I primed, I lightly sanded with a 220 grit (between coats) sandpaper to take off any drips or brush strokes.

* Again, you MUST wait the required amount of time for any primer or paint{on back of can}to cure in between coats or the finished piece will be sticky and might even peel...and it will never really go away.

Step 3:
       Next choose your paint color for the shelf; I used a Custom White Valspar Semi-Gloss and Benjamin Moore's "Cork" that I had left over from another project. I used a better quality brush to paint two coats of this paint {3 for the white}.

Step 4:
        If painting two colors, paint the first color only. After the white paint cured, I taped off the outlines and painted the yellow.  I also peeled off the tape before the paint completely dried...about 10 minutes after painting. The reason is because I have found some latex paints like to peel once dry when you try to peel off the tape.

Step 5:
        Since the shelf is going in a boy's room and will going through a lot of wear and tear; I wanted to make it more durable. I used a clear Polyurethane {Satin or Semi-Gloss finish depending on the shine you want} to seal the painted shelf.

There you have it, the updated shelf that can be reused/repainted as many times as I want!
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2 months

       Things are certainly changing around this house. Abram's personality came through little by little this month, making me excited to see him grow and learn new things. This month was mostly comprised of figuring out his digestive issues, his sleep schedule/issues, and seeing him smile when he was fed and happy.

      Right around the time of the 1 month post, Abram started to get a receding hairline, and then continued to lose all of his hair on the top of his head. Yes, our son was "Old man Abe"...I hate that nickname and will never repeat it. Just when we thought it would all fall out, tiny little hairs started showing up again. It was so strange because the color didn't even change. Babies.... Anyway one thing we have noticed is how thin it is {like mine}, so it has a slight spike...and a red tint to it! 

       Never thought we would have a red head, my family is full of them and Matt's mom has brown hair with a red tint. This month we have seen more and more of Matt's mom and grandma in Abram. She was the only grandparent who wasn't still with us when we started dating. We always say she got us together...so now I guess she gave us Abram too. ;)

1 Month- 6 Weeks {after his shots}- 2 Months

Weight & Height: We had to visit the pediatric surgeon for his constipation issues the day before he was two months old and he weighed 11 lbs 11 oz. It shocked us! He is so long, at almost 25 inches that he looks thinner than he is I guess. At he 2 month check-up {which we did at 6 weeks}, he was just under the 50% for his weight and head circumference, and was in the 86% for his height. Dang son!

Health: His tummy trouble/constipation didn't change after my post last month, so we ended up having to visit the Pediatric GI Dr. and Pediatric Surgeon. Fun stuff... We have to now do manual treatments at home, once a day, and give him prune juice in every bottle. Sometimes he still has flare ups, but we are hoping that this month we get things under control. Having a baby that is always in pain sort of disrupts any type of feeding schedule/sleep schedule/normal life.

He loves to be naked...what a boy!
Sleep: This month started out with very little sleep, but around 6 weeks he started sleeping in his pack-n-play and not the bouncer. He would take naps and he started sleeping 4 hour stretches at night right before Christmas. Merry Christmas! 

       I had been loosely following a Babywise type of sleep schedule since 4 or 5 weeks, but with his tummy it was hard. At around 8 weeks I started a firm schedule with regular feedings every day, a bedtime routine {bath and a book}, and a dream feed. He goes to sleep pretty easily by just swaddling him with white noise, turning him on his side, and patting his rear until he is drowsy, then he puts himself to sleep. A week after he started napping, he stopped. His naps last anywhere from 20-45 minutes {in the pack-n-play and crib} and then he is up and WILL NOT GO BACK DOWN. That makes my days lots of fun! Not.

Diet: Enfamil Gentlease with about 2 tsp prune juice. We tried lactilose, but hated it. He eats anywhere between 3-5 oz. at a feeding...usually 4.
Clothes: At 3 weeks he started wearing 3 months clothes, and by 5 was completely out of his newborn clothes.  They are now headed to the attic with my maternity clothes. He is still in size 1 diapers.

My elf

Baby Gear Love: Still love the boppy. Love his pack-n-play and his infant/toddler tub. Still love the swaddle and white noise machine. We are always taking him places in the strollers {we have 3 but use 2 now}. We use a rattle toy during tummy time, but he is not as interested in it as he is with me.

Crying: He knows what he wants..."I'M HUNGRY!" or "I'M TIRED!". The only times he really cries besides that are when he is cold or in pain.

Likes: Eating, bedtime in his pack-n-play, baths...he just chills...and pees in the water, talking to me, smiling, and his favorite thing of all time is still looking at lights and ceiling fans. When my mom would walk with him through her house, he would stare at the lights, fans, and dark beams. I think we have another architect or engineer in the future.

Christmas with Aunt Kiki

Dislikes: Diaper changes, being cold, quiet, having to use the bathroom, tummy time, and getting lotion rubbed on him.
Milestones: He is all smiles. He smiles when we talk to him or when we laugh. We have conversations that no one understands, but him. He laughs at my dad more than anyone {I would too ;)}. He is still trying to stand. He also has really good control of his head. 

first Christmas

       This month Abram went to Oklahoma for the first time, got his first shots, had his first Christmas and Christmas shopping, saw his first snow {I'm sick we didn't get pics}, celebrated his first New Years {with his best friend Sam}, and lots more walks and dates out. He also met his Great Grandparents and Uncle Red for the first time. 
What's up peeps...like my Christmas sweater?
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Where does the time go!?

My baby is 10 weeks old today!

I know I know I am WAY behind on the 2 month old post. As soon as I figure out how to get him to take naps longer than 20 minutes, I will get right on it.

A lot has happened with him...even since 2 months. Right now he thinks I am hilarious, and I eat it up! One day I know he will find me embarrassing so I will take his laughs at me saying simple words with a facial expression all day!

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